Some days I think the morning commute might be the defining test of motherhood. (There are many of these tests.) I am pre-coffee, mid-breakfast, running late, barely progressing. One of my babies wants my food; wants me to put it in her mouth. I oblige because she is still rear-facing, she is still hand-to-mouth-coordination developing, she is still young enough for me to worry about choking and so I become the morsel-by-morsel Monitor of Portion Control. My other baby, she’ll always be my baby but she speaks in treatises, she wants me to talk with her, sing with her, use her foot as a drum and beat the rhythm on her. A good rhythm. No tap-taps. The world is gray and stuck and traffic-jammy but I should be syncopated.
The benefit of a car not moving is that it is okay to use one hand to drop blueberries from heaven and the other for Crocs percussion jam sessions. A shame that God forgot to make my shoulders double-jointed.
There is coffee in my office. There is my comfy Aeron chair and my favorite mug and my broad desk, its wings spreading out to both sides behind and away from me, covered with the research and writing that awaits me for today. My mind is thinking on that research, but my daughters are demanding more entertainment from the driver/jester. Oh! and oooohhh-wuh!, one says, because these days the vowels feel so good in her mouth. Wuh! Wuh! she asks, which, if you’ll allow me the privilege of translating, means ‘more blueberry, please?’ My arm goes back to work.
The other one, though, she wants to press my mind into play. Faster than I can follow along she points to the Toyota in front of us, the one that looks like M’s but isn’t, and yells It’s Daddy! It’s not Daddy and she knows it’s not Daddy. She knows it’s not Daddy because we just dropped him off at the gas station where his car had been dropped off last night for a first-thing-today oil change. Reality is not the point, however, as I quickly am informed. No, Mama! Don’t say it’s not Daddy! I’m just SAYING it’s Daddy! And just as fast: a clue! A clue! A clue, Mama! On Daddy’s car! We're playing Blue's Clues, now, and I didn't even know. I am chastised for not waving my handy-dandy notebook. I should draw Daddy's car! I should drop a blueberry! Another clue! I should draw a fire station! I should drop a blueberry! Another clue! I should draw a police station! Drop a blueberry! Draw "a ambulance station!" (huh?) Safely execute a right on red!
I want to cultivate imagination. I love following the maze of her mindstrings. But it would just be so much easier if I had some coffee, first.
*Why is it so hard to find good links to good poems? Exerpted from “We want everything” by Moe Seager. Worth finding.